How can you find your significant other when you are just starting out in your career and with everything being virtual?? Tips??

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Hinge. I was skeptical as with any dating app but met my significant other on it during peak COVID a year ago and have been happy together ever since!! We did a virtual first date to be safe and then met in person after ensuring both had taken precautions etc.

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uh, not those questions big guy. that’s still weird, anonymous or not

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Found my SO on Match during covid after I was dared to try it by my best friend. He was the first guy I swiped right on (maybe 15 minutes into it?) and the only date I even got to accept as he asked me to be his girlfriend at the end of our first in person meeting (we had been talking constantly for three weeks lol).
I was one who swore dating apps weren't for me, but I was pleasantly surprised. We'll be getting married next fall and I couldn't be happier with our story. There is hope, OP!!

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Don’t date coworkers. Go outside

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I dated a coworker and now she’s my girlfriend of six years.

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Go outside

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Dating apps

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Nah, there are some real frogs out there. @BlackRock 1 stay positive, don’t give up. I literally had to move to a new state before I found someone lmao

You just graduated. Why are you so worried about finding your significant other so young?

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I mean year 1 becomes year 4 real quick :’)

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What do you mean everything is virtual? There’s plenty of places open where you can meet people.

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Chase success/happiness not a partner. The latter will come with the former

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D3, I met my wife when I was 31, you have time.

Seriously though, go and do non-virtual things. You have to put yourself out there. Don't be a wallflower waiting for stuff to happen. Go make it happen. Hit the bar scene, be social, take risks. Use dating apps if you want but then go and meet them in a public place and actually talk to them and see if there's a spark.

You might get hurt here and there, but most things without risk aren't worth doing. Not to quote Peter B. Parker, but it's a leap of faith. Go forth and find your gal/guy/Apache helicopter and prosper.

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Thank you ;)

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Go speed dating and see what happens.

About all you'll have time for as an accountant during busy season anyway. 🙂

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Gym, church, volunteer opportunities, common interest clubs etc.

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Also, remember this kind of stuff isn't a race. Just because someone else found their SO faster doesn't mean they're better than you or anything of the sort. Finding the right person is more important than settling for the wrong one earlier because you're trying to stay in line with some life plan set by your family or society.

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If you have a friend group that lives nearby, maybe ask to be set up with someone they know. It’s a little bit awkward to ask this, but if it pays off, it will be 100% worth it. Plus, some people love being matchmakers.

Personally I hate dating apps, but others make them work.

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Would you consider someone a co worker if they are in another team ?

I disagree. You know when someone is a match. I met my GF at work:

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