How should I react to a super disrespectful manager? She had a meeting today and google meet stopped working. Instead of thinking: oh a technical problem occurred she started blaming me saying that I should have created a corrected link. When I told her that was quite impossible her answer was: I forgot you are miss I am never wrong Linksare autogenerated by google meet, if I was able to “create” links and codes I would not have been her assistant but already in the valley making tons of money.

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Umm are you the same person that posted the thing about the password change? Because if so, your manager sounds a bit...nuts to put it nicely. I don't think this situation is fixable personally. I genuinely hope you're looking for other jobs

Wow is this the same manager? She sounds horrific! I'd started applying to other positions. This seems like a really hostile work environment

Comments like this are so annoying. You can never win, because if you are social and nothings gets done then it's your fault also.

i work at a small marketing firm where I wear many hats and I feel the exact same way. I'm trying to do a million things preparing for a huge campaign and everyone will come to my office asking questions about their roles. I cant get a break

WOOOOOW. THat is seriously terrible. If someone said that to me I would definitely be upset and not know how to react. Someone should not talk to you that way in your place of work and especially not your manager. That is so disrespectful.

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