I feel very alone. This is a career full of lonely people. I don't think this is how my life should be like. all this talk about work/life balance but no support to acheive the balance. And if I ....

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I can't afford to lose this job, but I can't afford to keep living like this. I feel my best years slipping away.

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complain, I'll be shown the way out :) You cannot complain to the same ppl who are the root of the issue, at least in my firm that's how it goes. Your rating will get hit, at minimum.

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What service line are you in? I’d recommend leaving and if things don’t work out you can easily go back or start fresh at another big 4

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Tax. it's not that easy for me to request a transfer. My office is not flexible with transfers, and it might imapct me negatively if I show disinterest in the team.

jump to industry

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you can if your on H1 B visa

I feel you 100% and my way of coping is just going out every weekend but I still feel very unfulfilled on weekdays :(

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Same here, weekends are never enough

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I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. I’ve been there. Just humor me for a sec. Pretend work didn’t exist. What is one thing you would do each day to find joy?

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I will try this, many thanks for the advice. I think that could actually help.

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I feel you OP. I’ve been in this constant cycle of being rather crabby/down during the week but too busy to be lonely. Then the weekend hits and I just sit around looking for a new job because I have zero energy. People tell me to leave, but I’m too focused on trying to make good money to support the lifestyle I want. It’s not a good cycle to be in and I buy shit to make myself ‘happy’ but it never lasts. 🙈

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