I’m 8 months into a new job and I want to quit already. Uughhhh. My boss I’m leaning is deceptive and very political. This sucks

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Try to take it as a personal challenge and plan on leaving at the 2 year mark if u can take it.. good luck OP

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1 surrender, accept, and embrace
2 don’t give a “f word”
3 talk to resourcing to staff you on a different project

If you’re early in your career, learn what you can and move on to another project as soon as possible. When you become a Managing Director at Accenture you’re going to need to have a good answer to “what is an example of a horrible project you were on?”.

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