Put in another offer on a home and was outbid again. I’m starting to feel so discouraged. We’re looking at the cheapest houses in the worst towns where we live and I’m feeling like we’ll never be able to compete. I feel like my husband and I make good money and we’ve offered at least 20k over asking for every house. We’re hoping we can find something before our lease ends but I have zero confidence. Our rent is being raised by a ton too so waiting another year isn’t really an option.

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