So... does anyone remember scheduling manners anymore? Two minutes before an IEP that was scheduled two weeks ago I get a text from the mom saying they're all gone on vacation. Oh... okay. That probably would have been good to know sooner. Haha

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I find that this happens more and more. People don’t realize that our time is limited and valuable. I had a parent show up for a meeting 3 hours late because “ school is open. I didn’t think it mattered” 🙄 Like we are just sitting around doing nothing until they decide it is convenient for them.

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Oh my. That is terrible!

Last month I had a parent text me the day of a tell me they had moved.....2 weeks later they moved back. Parents still refuse to respond and tell me if they are coming or not. People seem to think educators have all kinds of extra time! They don't realize what it takes to get all of the team together at once.

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Exactly! We do so much behind the scenes and people just have no idea.

Parents don't really care.

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Sadly this has been my experience with a few. Thankfully there have been other parents that have been great to work with.

Are you allowed to hold your IEPs in your state if a parent doesn’t respond or dose not show up?

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Unfortunately not. We have to reschedule.

Yep. I’ve had last minute messages to cancel as we all sat waiting for the parent. What is really funny is a couple of weeks ago I had a parent message me that she had a flat tire and wouldn’t make it to the meeting problem was the meeting was the next day. Lol

That is just silly. Haha I haven't encountered that situation yet... maybe I should get a bingo card with all crazy things I hear about from others and their experiences with parent excuses 😂

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