Somehow I ended up in a department where none - including leadership - ever heard of, or understand notions of subtle sexism, microaggression or allyship. How common is this? Or am I “lucky”?

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Denial and gaslighting. Of course they know what these are. What industry is this in?

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Grocery e-commerce in the UK. I sometimes recommend it to people as a “not terrible place to work at”. To what I hear replies “I’ve heard good things of it”. An I’m like: really?

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In 2023? I don't buy it. Willing ignorance

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Agreed

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How age-diverse is your team?

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Double ouch!

So common and that’s the problem

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these behaviours still exist in 2023 sadly. I had been in situations when people handshaked everyone in the room except with women.

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