Underpaid, stressed, and burnt out. How to combat and deal ? It’d help if I was allowed remote one day per week but nooooope

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Leave and find a gig that works with what you want. You aren’t a tree. You can leave a job if it no longer serves you.

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Gotta stay for the bills and loans unfortunately

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Did you ask to wfh one day a week? I’m looking to ask for a hybrid schedule but worried about the response

Wow I’m in the same boat. We have a paralegal that’s wfh full time and a legal assistant that’s starting Monday that’s hybrid. I’m going to ask and if they say no then I’m going to look elsewhere. At this point they need to make it an option for everyone

Exercise, therapy, water, better nutrition, try to get 8 hours of sleep per night. I was there in the middle of the pandemic but have slowly dug myself out of it. I’m in office 5 days a week too with no hope of remote days. Good luck!

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