Well my vacation time is dwindling away and I have not done anything with it but play games and watch TV. Can't seem to get motivated to do anything. I guess there's nothing wrong with that but why do I feel a little guilty about it😆?

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Well it's your time off, so you're free to do whatever makes you happy! I personally only take time off for holidays or if I'm going on a vacation, but everyone is different. Hope you enjoyed your vacay time

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I have very much. Thank you

I mean, we live in a world that seems content on making us "move move move" and then we ask "Why am I so burned out?". I love it that you took time to relax, and put yourself into a state of receptivity. TV and Games are lovely activities where we can just be receptive to our thoughts, ideas, and catch up on the backlog in the back of your mind. And honestly, who told you to feel guilty about resting?

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