By no means did I expect anyone to throw me a "sprinkle" shower for second baby, but I did think certain people may buy a little something for new baby.

I'm one month away and just received a gift from a not-close coworker, and that's literally the only thing anyone has gotten us. Nothing from family, nothing from close friends... no small gift like a baby board book or baby blanket... nada.

Makes me sad 😕

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I had a couple friends gift me presents when they came to visit the new baby (like a new book). If you want a sprinkle, then feel free to throw one yourself. I found my friends assumed (rightfully so) that I had everything I needed for the second one.

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Yeah I really don't need anything, just diapers and wipes mostly. But thought close family/ friends would have SOME enthusiasm. My first had hand made blankets etc... nothing for this one.

My close friends and family all brought gifts when they came to meet the baby (or shipped after baby was born if they’re not local/available to meet).

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Agreed! My closest friends actually dropped gifts off at our door and then texted later to let us know after they left. I would have rather they had stayed, but they didn’t want us to feel pressure to host. I appreciated the thought and had them over soon after!

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I didn’t get anything for my second and not expecting anything for my third 🤷🏻‍♀️

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I almost exclusively got gifts for my second after the baby was born. I also think having two of the same gender made people think we didn’t need anything (which is fair); but a lot of small gifts trickled in over the first month or so postpartum.

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Yes also two of the same gender here.

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