Do you hang out with coworkers outside of work? I enjoy being with them but we all live so far away from each other it doesn’t really work out. I’m occasionally will golf after work which is nice.

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I never do, but if they invited me out, I’d be open to it!

I’ve had jobs in the past where I was closer to my colleagues and we would hang out occasionally after hours, however, that’s not the kind of job I have now and I honestly not hanging out with my coworkers after work has proven to be a lot less dramatic and I think it’s better for my career and mental health if I don’t become a buddy with my colleagues

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