Does any one get anxious when your manager says let’s meet for coffee to chat?

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Whenever my manager wants to meet, I assume it’s to fire me. Although my ratings are 4 and 5. I need to talk to my therapist about that

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Damm
My bestie was on PIP cause of his senior. He hated him and gave him intentionally a bad snapshot. He is out of PIP now.if he get a chance, he will kick on his senior nuts.

FYI - my manager met me to say good job

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4 and 5 is good in EY?
Cause in pwc 4 is bad.
1 is best

Oh sorry. 5 is best

Although when my manager said he was flying in to my city to meet with me, I knew it was to fire me. And I even asked him that. (I was on a PIP under a local director who did not like me)

Best luck

ey1...did u get fired

Yes I was fired. But I had been miserable. And now I am in a much better position

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