Does anyone feel good/deep quality male friendships are hard to find?

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always rely on self... and we need to hangout with right mindset people.... rather our old friends who doesn't have any value... and waste time in smoking drinking etc....

quality people are there but it's very rare... but eventually atlest start to rely on yourself...and alest avoid so called friends who r for name only and we call them friends cause we don't want to feel alone or left out

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It is true. Ladke ek dusre ki problems ka mazak udaane aur daaru pee kar bhulane mein zyada believe karte hain . If I talk to a male friend about my problem , he might not be considerate enough. He'd be like be a man and move on!

Aise scenarios mein aur zaroorat hai dhang ke friend ki.

Everyone is money minded try to loot on others

It's hard to find such friends. Only childhood or lagotiya can be like that

It depends on your perception

after getting married it has become very difficult.

point1 - it becomes very difficult to make friends with single guys. they just dont understand the concept of ghar main biwi ko timrdena hota hai.

point 2 - if i try to coincide plan wife tags along only of they bring their significant other. and there also the gfs/wives have to live mine. and vice versa.
in that scenario, my wife asks me to go alone, without compromising on time is spend with her.

mujhe bhi kabhi kabhi free time chahiye hota hai where i dont want to deal with people, and watch series or play instruments.

i cannot even imagine about what will happen once i have a kid.
hopefully not.

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