Fishes- how do you deal with nasty bosses? The one I have now has no compassion and refuses to listen to other opinions (except her small group’s). Need virtual hugs...

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@OP, What makes them a nasty boss? I think the responses could be more constructive with this information.

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Report them to HR

Document the behavior, then talk with someone more senior that you trust (or maybe with HR depending on the situation). If nothing changes after that, probably time to pack up and leave.

Go one level above them and say you think you’d benefit more with a different manager. That’s what I did 🤷🏽‍♀️ as long as you don’t knock the old one, nobody’s feelings or ego gets hurt

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Hey Fishes,

Need likes & emojis
Can I get some
N here's some humour
What's the logic behind likes & reactions after 12 emojis and then we getto send a DM?
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Employee : I think this is the smartest way to jus DM Directly instead of getting likes & other reactions. Do you think that's really imp.?
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Let me shift him to other team or.let me see if.i.can kick him out..
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