I am a people pleaser and believe relationships can get you further at work. What's your persona at work? Do you have a strategy or are you genuinely invested? Or a mix of both?

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I think my work persona is pretty much just my regular personality. I try to be pleasant toward people, and I try to handle things with a sense of humor. I'm not really paying attention to pleasing people in a strategic sense. But I'm just aware that things in the workplace go easier if people are congenial.

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Thanks for sharing!

I know that engineers can get a bad rap for their social skills so I've definitely made a conscious effort to be friendly and enthusiastic (not over the top of course) but I think that working on my social skills has really helped me move up in SE roles, and I'd recommend working on it to anyone who is trying to figure out how to move up

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Thanks for sharing!

Mix of both

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Thanks for sharing!

I don’t think my work persona varies that much from how I am in day to day life. I strive to be kind, helpful, and humble always . The vast majority of people respond well to that and so it makes it pretty easy to get things done.

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Thanks for sharing!

EE here. It's not what you know, it's who you know. I've learned this over the years but also learned that my top heavy company is run by folks that don't understand what we build and sell. Brown nosers move up and it's gross. I won't participate.

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