I know some people have talked about Christmas already but we have a real issue. So one of the execs keeps asking people about people's Christmas plans, calling the office holiday party a Christmas party, and what prompted the complaint from some employees was that he wished a client a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. I asked him if he had five minutes to chat, and I mentioned to him the reasoning behind refraining and he said it was bs (the full word) and walked out. We can't fire the COO...

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I think it’s fine that he / she says merry Christmas. That is the religion and faith he adheres to. That is a freedom he has to express that. But the company should be more neutral about mentioning holidays to be inclusive. Encourage employees to say happy “insert their holiday” and to feel free to do that so you can include all matters of cheer! Don’t gate employees from saying their holiday wishes. That is actually not inclusive. I work at a fortune 50 global D&I team btw that has offices in every country around the world.

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I get wished a Happy Haunukah probably once a day by my clients or staff. I'm not Jewish, but I guess I look like your stereotypical accountant. I don't even correct them. People need to chill and not go out of their way to find things to be upset about.

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I think it is bullshit. If you don’t celebrate Christmas feel free to say happy holidays but trying to control other people like this is where DEI goes off the freaking rails.

We just had a huge Diwali celebration at my company and nobody batted an eye. But say the word Christmas and you’re an evil white oppressor who must be destroyed 😂

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I definitely think asking employees about their "Christmas plans" can be intrusive. It sounds nosy and maybe like the boss might be trying to horn into having you do a bit of work.
Tell them to have a restful holiday, that they deserve it. At that point, if they want to offer information about their plans, they will

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I wish my Christian colleagues a Merry Christmas and my Jewish colleagues a Happy Hanukkah. That seems reasonable?

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Because I know my colleagues. That’s normal.

You're right, firing the COO isn't a realistic option. However, depending on the company culture and severity of his behavior, there might be other consequences like formal discussions with HR, diversity and inclusion training, or even mediation to address his lack of sensitivity.

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How frustrating, you've done your part now and explained the issue. Despite his reaction I bet he stops doing it!

I celebrate Christmas and say Merry Christmas "or whatever holiday you choose to celebrate". However, I'm not in leadership.

I hate being asked about my holiday plans, because struggle with depression is very real this time of year. I will say something like resting at home. I wouldn't dare say the truth, as I'm having a lot of sad days lately.

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