I left before I wanted to - to be closer to my wife's family. She was so unhappy while I was in the military. I'm unhappy because I didn't want that chapter of my life to end; I feel incredibly resentful. I guess I need to vent because I feel so sad that this period of my life didn't last long, and I feel jealous of others who are still in the service.

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Why don’t you just join the National Guard. Still, can be in, but still home 90% of the time?

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Getting out of the marine corps in 2 days , do what your heart desires because end of the day it’s your life and your job . You’re the one that has to show up to that job everyday or live with that. Do what you love .

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I agree with the above could you join the national guard?

I feel you on that I did the same thing, now I’m regretting it every day!!

Bro, try seeing it from her side and realize she wasn't trying to control you. Resentment is just a burden on you and doesn't do anything to help you make different decisions for your future. National Guard is a good idea, but also talking to your wife and maybe getting some things off your chest would be a good idea too

Leaving the military can be a difficult transition, especially when it happens before you're ready. It's understandable to feel sad and resentful about it. However, it's important to remember that change can also bring new opportunities and experiences. I hope that you're able to find ways to honor your military service while also enjoying the positives of your new life with your wife's family.

You still have your family and you still have life. You can still achieve your goals. My family betrayed me and when you serve long enough you’ll work with betrayers as well. You can still serve your community and country in another capacity. You can still achieve your goals.

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