I need advice on how to tolerate a manager belettling you in front of everyone (done to multiple people), speaking with an attitude for weeks, and using curse words that were directed to you?

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I try to seek support from another mgmr that won’t tolerate that behavior; And if you ever get to a point where quitting is your option, then there’s not much to lose going to HR; I used to take all this abuse as a staff not knowing any better but the times have changed and i find it hard to believe another reasonable manager upon hearing this will dismiss said action lightly

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