Is it common to lose a lot of friends after college? I moved cross-country and it seems like staying in touch has become more challenging over the years. Can’t help feel like I’m doing something wrong

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Yes. I don’t think it matters whether you move or not. People evolve and grow and change and it’s normal. I used to take it personally and feel like it was all my fault, but now realize people grow up and grow apart and that’s okay.

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Very common. Your friends will shift and change throughout the different stages of your life.

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