Ladies - have you had any success joining women's groups or meeting other women who golf/want to learn? Most of my friends are not interested and a lot of women at the club seem to have their own little cliques etc. Not sure what to do

Being single in this quarantine is the worst thing ever. This could have been such a fantastic bonding time with our S/O (if only we had one 🤷‍♀️)

Your best tips on managing the emotional stress/burn out in family law - let’s share!

One of my church members passed away today. Please keep his family in your prayers. He had four children, all under the age of 20. So it will be difficult for his wife to continue on.

My husband is an alcoholic and it’s getting worse with the holidays. He’s started every day drinking high alcohol-content IPAs as early as 8am. And he drinks them all day and all night like soda. He did AA when he was younger but is now vehemently against it. He is high-functioning. Has a PhD from MIT and works for a venture capitalist firm. I wondered how he gets through the day, but he started to come home early (mid-afternoon) and immediately open a beer while working. What should I do?

A girl (she’s 22/23) in my condo is showing keen interest in me. I’m 31M, single and feel this will be a disaster to proceed with. It’s not like that I hate her or something. I just never thought about her.

Also just recovered from a bad breakup after 7+ years of relationship.

For those who are trying to find a tennis buddy, please feel free to post on this thread. Just indicate your estimated level and location (city or area).

How do you handle extended family’s poor financial choices other than distance yourself? Especially when some of their choices affects you and your family?

My husband and I are going through our 2nd cycle. He initially asked me to allow his sister to administer my injections because she’s a nurse and I refused. I don’t like depending on people when I am capable of doing things myself. This is taking an emotional toll on me already, but I don’t want him to feel like I’m refusing his help and excluding him from the process, because I won’t take his suggestion. How do I get him to understand?

Anyone ever gone through a separation with their spouse and have 3 small kids (under 6) in the equation? My spouse asked me for one tonight 🥲

I have a grandparent who is a toxic narcissist. He is my only living grandparent. I will be inviting all aunts and uncles to our wedding. However, after watching my grandparent make my sister's wedding completely about him and try to get involved, although my sister did not want that, I do not want to invite him. Any advice?

I’m feeling so depressed. My project is remote and I hate it but no way out. Looking for a new job. I just moved out on my own after living with parents, but now I cry all the time even though (contd)

Would you rather lick 👅 a porcupine or go back to your ex?

I am 52 I have been feeling so tired and when I was in my 40’s. I had a lot more energy. Now I am so tired after work - but I have 4 girls ages, 16-15-13-9. I am going through menopause and my Osteoarthritis hurts somedays and that doesn’t work. Any advice how to keep up with my four girls while feeling crummy?!?

Parents to be: Has anyone not changed their last name and come up with a compromise for naming your kids’ last names? It’s strange to me that the dad’s last name is still the default whether or not the mom took his name. (Apparently I’m in the minority, only 20% of women retain their name) What’s your plan and what’s been your experience? Also very interested in how LGBTQ+ community handles this.

I love watching my 3-year-old's engineering hacks... he wanted to pet the cat so he built a fort out of pillows and waited, now the cat's purring on his lap and they're both asleep

Is it ok to look for one night stands while on road and not feel guilty.. does it mean I dont love my girlfriend?

For those of you who do external IT Audit (SOC 2, NIST, HIPAA, ISO, etc.), how do you describe what you do to friends or outsiders that are not in the same type of work?

Been a week since my first round, how long does it take for big4s to come back with an update?

Anyone heard of the member analytics group at Aetna? I was approached for a data science role but it seems the group is quite new.

Does anyone have the Hermès clic clack bracelets? And do you find they get annoying when you type on your computer?

Hi All,

I have offers from
Capgemini -23
Bosch - 19
Verolt engineering - 20
Vitesco - 22

Which one I should select
Please help me with your opinion.

Hi fishes,
Which one to choose?
American express or IQVIA?

Celebrity Death Pool candidate? Go!!

How is downtown Toronto these days? Is it worth it?

Moving to Toronto for a new job and have the option of living downtown on my own or with some family in the outer suburbs.

I need help with recommendations for buying a nice custom made suit for my upcoming wedding. Any leads are appreciated! Thanks in advance 🙏🏽

Dealing with post partum dep/anx. On my 5th day of Zoloft 50mg for the first time and the days are still really really hard. Is it the side effects? How long before I should feel somewhat better/normal? Really struggling today. Any insight into your experience would mean a lot.

In the Process of Joining TIAA last Joining day is 13 Dec. Filled background verification on 1st Dec, from then no communication from company?, so what is the onboarding process?, I also have offer from EY Should i join there instead?

Had a recent job offer from Amazon TC 146 K sign on bonus 42K RSU 508 for a L6 Sr. Program manager based out of Nashville. This is barely more than the amount I make now(actually base is lower than what I make). I’m planning to ask for about 18% more, is that a high number? Does anyone have an idea how much Amazon negotiates? This is for a non tech role so I’m not sure of the exact salary range.
Any help would be appreciated

I got an offer in capgemini engineering. Is it to good to join and what about the WFH culture?

Busy season is easy. It's like riding a bike but the bike is on fire. And the ground is on fire. And everything's on fire because you're in hell

Define: working from home

Did RSM just replace Adobe Acrobat XI with DC?

Hi I am a 26 yr old patient account specialist making about 45k for a physical therapy company., that I have been with for 3 years. I’m now looking to for a 10-15k pay raise. Elevance is a company I’d like to get into for potential growth. My resume is available upon request, and any advice would be truly appreciated.

Need 11 likes to start DM.

Thanks

Masters Round 1 - 2nd least productive day in April for tax professionals

Anyone stopping JT this week?

I just learnt there's such a thing as "Automatic Driver"

Congrats Hideki! I love when a group thrives despite others pulling them down.

Anyone here partake in a Junior Membership at a local golf or country club? I’m 26 living in a southern tier 3 city and currently weighing the pros and cons.

Does anyone else have a LinksDAO NFT?

Public courses in NYC area?

Anyone near the DC area by chance?

What’s a low key great city/township for golf in GA? Gonna go in Feb

What companies are y'all at that are pro golf? Where is it fully encouraged? Anywhere outside of sales? Trying to think about what the next step in my career is and asking the important questions 🙂.

Going through a big swing change this winter. I'm really excited but equally nervous I'll just find new ways to shoot high scores... Any tips for making new changes successful

Getting into golf and need to build a wardrobe. I definitely lean into looking good, playing good. Any brands / players to look into? Really like Tiger / Rory but might just be the fan in me.

Taking some golf lessons, got a women’s starter set I got to make sure I liked golf first. Instructor mentioned that the driver is like swinging a wet noodle for me lol and I should look into a men’s or one with stiffer flex. I have no idea what to look for. Are the people at Dicks Sporting Goods knowledgeable or worth driving the 40 min to PGA store?

Does anyone carry a driving iron? If so how do you find it?

Thinking of dropping the $ to buy a Titleist U500 2-iron... 10 handicap and wondering if I'll be able to actually hit it solid. I see my scratch/plus handicap friends hitting bullets with theirs

How many courses have you played that have hosted majors?
I’ve got Whistling Straights, Hill Course French Lick, Colonial Country Club, Erin Hills, and Crooked Stick

I want to upgrade my irons and driver - if you were to pick one of the two to buy brand new, would you buy a brand new driver or brand new irons? I’ll probably buy one of the two used, but curious what others think. I’m not ready for a fitting, but definitely need an upgrade from my garage sale clubs 😆

Best place to buy club set in NYC for a beginner to intermediate player based on price and quality?