My boyfriend of one year broke up with me out of nowhere citing depression and feeling blank. He blocked my number. He recently changed some meds and was having some lows. I feel so broken.

Today is my 23rd birthday and I had very few people say happy birthday today. I was still in daily contact with my ex (I know a mistake) and he snapped me but did not send me happy birthday (we were together 3yrs ). So I finally blocked him on everything for the first time. (I should’ve done it a long time ago for other reasons) With the pandemic and everything else going on I’m feeling hopeless and alone. 😓 is there anything to be happy about right now?

I’m (early30s) about 8 months into a relationship with a 40m. Things are wonderful in every aspect, but he is absolutely atrocious with his finances. I felt it becoming an issue about two months ago. He forgets about auto payments and just generally doesn’t care. I sat down with him and looked at everything and even after talking it out he still continues to stress and it’s now causing me stress. I had a final discussion with him today about it and he went on abt how love isn’t enough for me…

"Even if #CovidVaccines are appropriate in all circumstances, the decision to be vaccinated must be left to the individual. It's never appropriate for a government to force individuals to subjugate their rights for the public good. Individual rights are the bedrock of freedom."

- Peter Schiff

Anyone here know of a good 🏳️‍🌈 therapist?

What’s the max umbrella policy coverage y’all have seen offered by insurance providers? Looking to get one for the first time. Anything I should consider/ask the insurance company?

To the struggling healthcare student. It’s okay to struggle and not know stuff. Sincerely your friendly neighborhood physical therapist.

Guys, has the gym at Bangalore office opened up?

Has anybody given nab codility test.please let me know

If you took a baby aspirin in your first trimester, when did your doctor start you on it?

So I just started taking Alli, seeing some pretty steady results at 5 lbs down… But goddamn the butt leakage LMFAO I knew from the reviews that there would be oily shits, but I was not prepared for the leaky bootyhole… trust no farts on this, yall. Thank me later…

Wife is twelve weeks pregnant. Just found out we’re having our third boy.

I am so nauseous and have been eating straight carbs for over a week now.. Any healthy lunch/breakfast ideas that would be easy on my stomach?

Any recent experiences with going to Equinox these days? Is it still worth it?

Anyone start a new relationship before business school started? How did it work out?

Hi fishes,
As an employee of TCS, can we avail any comprehensive/full lab tests/ health checkup tests in Hyderabad.?
While I'm checking on Medibuddy, there's an "amount to pay" displayed on each of the tests.

My wife often calls me by 5:45/6 to ask where I am if I’m not headed home yet. Sometimes she’s stressed with kids/dogs/dinner and really wants me home. This really throws off my concentration because it makes me feel rushed. Like many practices sometimes I’m out at 5:30, other times it’s much later. Just depends and is unpredictable. Any advice on how to approach this?

Real talk ... if someone is over 35 and hasn’t been married before, do you automatically assume there is something wrong with them?

What would be the salary range for a demand planning specialist in Bay Area?
For someone with 3.5 years work experience and masters degree

What’s the salary range for a junior software engineer at USAA? I’m in their training program and trying to determine if it’s worth it before I waste 15 weeks in their software development training program .

Need to buy an engagment ring and I am clueless. What should be the diamond carat?

Better being the fat fish in the pond or a small fish in the ocean?

Golf talk. I know I have to try them out in person, but any suggestions for a intermediate set of women’s golf irons?

Hi fishes,do ey gds reimburse monthy internet?

Hot take: I like our decentralized staffing model because I can work in any industry and it creates less of a “class divide” between offices

I have 22lks offer from KPMG. My SM is calling for a negotiation discussion, what should I expect?

Hi, I am living in pg near gtp office whose rent is very high. So searching for a single sharing room in a 2bhk flat or in a good pg with decent rent. So is there anyone searching for female roommate near gtp Kormangala or do anyone living in good pg with decent rent. Please DM me. Also searching for some North indian friends to hang out.

In case you need a referral in Fujitsu, kindly check their careers page.

If you find any relevant openings, let me know through comments or DM 😇

Getting a golden retriever puppy soon. Live in Brooklyn high rise- is it safe to take him to right outside the front door to potty and wipe his paws? He’ll be 8 weeks old when I get him

Any opening for QA automation engineer.
Skill - javascript/typescript
Cypress/protractor , API testing

Other tools -
Docker
Shell scripting
Jenkins
Linux

Experience 6.9 years


Thanks

Does FIS offer onsite! If yes, what are the approvals required?

Anyone noticed the dip in the market and is tempted to sell at this point? My advice is HODL. History always repeats itself. The market will come back up and if you sell you will lose. This is the time to buy not sell. Let’s go 🚀

Any reco on tax advisors?
Approaching 1M (wife makes a lot) and trying to find ways to optimize.

Analysts seem to like TJX but looking at the long term debt/equity I can’t get comfortable. What am I missing?

Anybody moved to BDO from Big 4? How does it compare? Any significant differences? Other than name

11pm, anxiety attacks about work. Sleep. Next day work goes through the day and I wrap up at 730pm, Boredom strikes, Feel like only 3 hours to live my life and then its 11pm, anxiety attacks abou....

Do any of you have days when you start getting rid of all of your stuff? I think of end of life ceremonies a lot, so when I see all my stuff, I get overwhelmed by it bigtime and want to sell it off.

Today is my 23rd birthday and I had very few people say happy birthday today. I was still in daily contact with my ex (I know a mistake) and he snapped me but did not send me happy birthday (we were together 3yrs ). So I finally blocked him on everything for the first time. (I should’ve done it a long time ago for other reasons) With the pandemic and everything else going on I’m feeling hopeless and alone. 😓 is there anything to be happy about right now?

My mom and dad are separating (bad terms) and not speaking, but my mom asks me about him everyday. She knows I don’t want to talk to him or about him, but continues to bring it up everyday.. I’ve resorted to silence or not responding because I always end up being the bad guy when I get annoyed or don’t want to discuss it. Am I wrong here?

Got scheduled for a biopsy to check on some abnormalities. They said it’s most likely nothing serious. I’ve been in this weird thought spiral that if it’s cancer at least I won’t have to worry about work. That’s messed up. I hate that this work is always hanging over my head and always take priority over everything else. I am working with my therapist on setting boundaries but i think I’m resentful that we’re the ones that need to do this. The companies we work for will never do

Hi does anyone have health anxiety while working out? Haven’t worked out since September and really scared of going back to the gym because I gained some weight and I become very panicky when my heart rate goes high. Anyone has any tips on how I can go back to the gym and go back to enjoying my workouts?

How does everyone manage SAD during the winters. Feeling so down and not sure what are the best ways to cope.

I feel empty. Been on a solo project for the last few months, and I'm a quiet guy, but this+the environment is getting to be a lot. I'm at the client site 10-14 hours a day, remaining hours...

I suffer from depression. Currently on 150mg Venafaxcine. It seems my depression is worse in the day and I come alive at night. Has anyone experienced this with or without Venafaxcine?
I work remote and I'm currently on the bench. I'm worried because my utilization is low...Im trying to learn new skills and sleepy during the day it makes it hard. I don't get sleepy until 3am because I'm wired/hyped up. I don't know what to do. Without the meds, I won't be able to get out of bed...

Should I go to a psychologist or a psychiatrist? Where can I find a good one that’s right for me? I’ve been extremely anxious for years and want to see a professional for the first time

How do you deal with politics when you're tired, depressed, anxious.... it all just seems so pointless, needless drama and work....but I know it is essential to advance

I’ve been terribly unhappy with all that comes with the consulting lifestyle. How do I know if it’s the job or underlying depression and anxiety?

Do you think it’s possible for depression to just ‘go away’? All the triggers are still there but the depression isn’t?

Thankfully on a project and working remotely. I’ve been slowly losing grip with my depression and anxiety. Anyone else feel too scared to talk about it with their team?

Any advice as to how to help my other-half (who has bouts of anxiety and depression) apply to jobs? He’s going through a particularly rough patch at the moment. We had a big chat the other day which was great! However, even if we agreed that I’m doing everything I can for him (his words) it has to come from him (which we both agreed). He’s having a real mental block (I think with writing cover letters mostly) he describes staring at the screen feeling incapable. Any suggestions?

Dad got laid off. Drinking got worse. Attempted assault on sis and mom. Had to put up in hotel. No clue on next steps (legal and personal). Project is complete shit show and SM is not getting it. Idk man...

For those who are experiencing depression and those who aren’t: what gets you up in the morning?

Genuinely feeling subpar here. I can’t point to one thing I’ve done well on this project. I don’t think I should even be a manger to be honest. I’m not good enough to work here.

What would you do if you didn’t need money? I have a fair amount coming one day and don’t actually need to work to live a good life (middle / upper-middle class). I work because of this vague notion of “ambition” and because everyone I grew up around is highly competitive and hard driving. I just feel unhappy so often and am wondering what this is all leading to. Scared I’m wasting my life being unhappy / in turmoil cause it’s what my culture wants me to do.

Just heard today that my project is going to shutdown in October. I am not sure what is going to happen with me since my manager did not say anything yet. Super stressed not sure what to do?