Should I expose my coworker's lies? I stumbled upon evidence that a teammate is seriously exaggerating their achievements. Do I bring it up or stay quiet?

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This question might be better in the consultants or water cooler bowl

But generally speaking, it’s best to let someone’s lies speak for themselves.

If you’re in a situation where you need to work directly with them or for them, you can raise it as a problem because you don’t trust them, and why you don’t trust them.

Curious, what kind of lies are we talking about?

Leave it be unless it’s directly impacting you.

I think that really depends on what the lies are and what is being effected by it. If its an ethical concern or something that could lead to serious consequences then yes I would bring it up.

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