Been sober 347 days. Single and sober at Xmas for the first time in a decade. Probably going to get wasted tonight and just let myself go back down the hole into the darkness. I don’t feel like reaching out to anyone in real life and being a dark cloud. Never thought I’d be alone at 40 like this. Not seeing the point of the holidays if I’m both alone and also can’t drink.

Any good kitchenaid stand mixer recipes? No attachments yet. Already made a bunch of bread, dough, pita bread, Naan and tons of sweet stuff. Looking for vegetarian options.

Moving to Philly Nov 1, just signed a lease in Queen Village. Coming from LA where I was part of a volleyball group and had a lot of options at the beach. Suggestions on making friends and being active (while still being respectful of covid rules & health of all)? 36 F

My mom won't wear her Fitbit to bed. She has a pacemaker and has had a fib. We got it for Christmas so we could find out while she's in an episode and not a month later. She read or saw somewhere that it interferes with pacers. I looked it up and it's not a legit concern, but wanted more opinions before I advise.

I’m around 21 weeks and have been dealing with a lot of leg, tailbone, back, and general muscle pain. Since I do work long hours Monday- Wednesday (10hr +) I’m trying find a comfortable chair to switch to. Any recommendations? Currently I’m switching every hour or so between my kneeling chair and standing.

I should have just got on PREP..

How have you dealt with/recovered from burnout and feelings of numbness while working as a therapist?

Talking to the opposite sex at the gym: yes or no? (Or same sex)

Anyone that has experience with the Crypsis Group willing to share an opinion on them?

Hi, not sure if this is the correct bowl. I would like to buy a Theragun percussion device using my HSA funds. From what I understand, Theragun is normally not eligible for HSA but I have a doctor's note saying he is recommending one. Would that make it eligible?

Helper had to get surgery and will require post op care. Anyone aware of any places in Singapore that are able to assist? We are not in a position to fully provide care 24/7

Salam, Ramadan Mubarak! Anyone trying to maintain some level of strength training during Ramadan? I know it’s ideal to lift after iftar (maybe after dates/water + magrib and before dinner) but wonder if it is doable to squeeze in a 30-40 min training session right before iftar (for time saving purposes)?

Any tips for staying healthy while traveling for work regularly, esp to smaller cities/towns with limited healthy takeouts? When there are no healthy options available I usually just not eat or eat a super basic salad (eg lettuce + chicken), and I bring some protein bars and appetite suppressant fiber crackers with me. But my life has been super miserable and I find myself hangry all the time, bloated from eating too much raw veg, and waking up in the middle of the night starving 😭

Need genuine advice
I’m 29 , Bisexual man more inclined towards men

Will it be okay if I marry a woman , asking in terms of my mental health ? I’m succumbing to the family and societal pressure .
I’ll always be loyal to my partner, but is there anyway I could curb my gay side completely? A conversion therapy or something?

Hey! I’m new here and would like some input. I’ve been working in a new position for almost 5 months. In that time I’ve witnessed some unethical and lots of unprofessional behavior. I’ve been yelled at and berated by my coworker 3 separate times because of minor errors. I’m ready to quit. There are so many major issues in this company that I don’t know if I want to subject my mental health to this degree of toxicity. I just don’t know how to move forward from here.

Anyone else find themselves getting extremely stressed at work during pregnancy? It’s like my emotions are just off and I get so stressed so easily. I want to be calm for baby but it’s hard to not get worked up!

Does anyone know a good trainer in nyc who works with folks with prior injuries (acl/shoulder issues) ?

What are people’s ADHD med schedules like? I’d love to have coverage that lasts all day, but still lets me sleep.

Taking Concerta in the AM doesn’t give me enough coverage for the whole day. I take it the moment my alarm goes off in the morning at (usually) 6am. Which is great for my morning, but by 3pm I’m starting to fray apart, bouncing around between tasks and getting progressively more distractible and demotivated.

New to the city.
How do you all get through the constant gray and gloom? Especially with the lockdowns: with gyms closed, and constant drizzle - what outdoor activities do you do?

Why does insulin in the United States cost 10x what it costs in Canada?

Hi Fishes … I have 3 years of experience in mainframe operations as System Engineer , now I want to switch my job profile to Business Analyst/ Operations Analyst …. Skills - Power BI, Advanced Excel ,SQL … CCTC- 8 LPA … let me know if anyone can help / refer … Suggestions are also welcomed for how to switch career

What’s a good budget for rent if I’m making 138k + 14k sign on in NYC? I’ve got like 10k in student loans and about 5k in credit cards. No other obligations.

How much is 2k a month for a house payment? What size loan would I be able to get?

Fishes, what is the base for 1yr experience AC currently?

Need help building an electric schedule for a production schedule with a Gantt chart style view (sort of)

Currently have an excel list with resource (production line), start date and time, and then also the name of the item being produced.

Any ideas how to tackle this??

I’m thinking a stacked bar chart with the vertical categories to be my resources and horizontal the date/time and then each individual bar to be the name of the item being produced.

Thank you for the help Excel Gods 🙏

Seriously need suggestion
Between CG AND HTC which is better.

Hi fishes,
Anyone have hybris knowledge based on java springboot. Please let me know.

I have 8 years of experience in Insurance & Risk as a Risk Manager & Claims Adjuster specifically in Workers Compensation...how can I transition into a Workers Compensation Underwriting Role with sufficient pay? Please help, give advice, tips, share leads to any companies that looks at strong transferable skillsets, character, and integrity. Thank you

Is LS boutique to the buy side a viable route? Or is there often intermediary roles?

Anyone have insight on the growth trajectory / salary progression working at Salesforce? Offering a pay bump from consulting but don’t want to limit my growth ops this early in my career (First year early promo SC)

Hi everyone, I’m 54 year old making 37k in health care I’m have not debs and cash in the bank. I recently got divorced so He tock everything so I have only what I mentioned. I live in a house with a room mate paying $300 for a room. I would like to invest or make some kind of way to grow my money. Any suggestions??? Please

… and suddenly, as the day of the interview approaches, I feel I can’t care less about this job.

I scream into the void, hoping to be heard.
I stare into the dark, waiting for the dawn.
I find solace whispering to you strangers.
I fight my demons, only to know they prevail.

Confession Friday!!: Tell us something your girlfriend/boyfriend/partner doesn’t know you did/said/think. 🟢🟢🟢

I’m a newspaper advice columnist on the side and looking for real requests for advice for my column that I can respond to. I may print your letter anonymously and my reply with your permission.

I listened to Motorsport 4 times this morning.

This middle schooler told me that smelling nice makes your more eloquent and then sprayed me with something. I don't know what he did but after that I had a weird axe-scent.

🎶I don't know why I slept with that guy,
Perhaps I was high...🎵

Her loss 🔥🔥🔥

My generation is really f#cked up. It's impossible to save any money. And it's not that I don't want to. Is simply because I can't do it, by the end of the month there is really not much left. I'm exhausted of working to just pay bills 😔 Sometimes I wonder if those people that quit everything to have a better life are really the smarts one.

I’m the chief now 😤😤😤

How much time in a day do you spend on this app? I think it’s too much for me. 😆

Getting over heartbreak and having a full time job is torture lol. My boyfriend and I just broke up after almost a year of being together. It was such a beautiful relationship but ultimately he just didn’t love me. I love him so much. My mind knows that I deserve reciprocal love and I’m worthy, but I feel physically ill. My body hurts, my stomach is in knots, my head hurts. How is it that I have to mend a broken heart but also meet my billable hours lmao

I work in industry and was notified that my employer is laying off people in 3 months. In order to get my bonus I have to stay until then. Do I wait 1-2 months before I start applying to other jobs or start now?

Probably the least racy confession on here but I really liked Windows 8 and I'm sad there's nothing like it anymore

It's called a donner not a gyro. It was invented in Turkey and the poor excuse for 'gyro' in NY is microwave food compared to elite restaurant level kebab in Gokyuzu (London).

Men marry their second mom.

Chris Stapleton might be a cool guy. Maybe he has some good music. But every time I hear him sing “drive on” during a Ram commercial I want to punch him in the face. Ram has overplayed that one.