First holiday since the the divorce. Let’s see how this goes.

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Good luck brutha/sista—-after almost 20 years of marriage myself, I’m fearing that we’re coming to the end, so could be in your shoes next holidays. 😢 Pulling for ya...

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First Xmas after my parents got divorced my dad got us a Nintendo.

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You got this!

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Been there. Feel what you feel. Join in or not. Don’t feel you need to fake it if you’re not up for it. Or have fun and make new traditions and memories. There’s no right way. And you don’t need to explain yourself to anyone.

Everything is going to be ok, you’re future is going to be great and full of new adventures, new people, new paths.

To new beginnings.

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Good for you. No reason to stay in a realationship that isnt working. Divorce is a good thing. A new life. Everyone will be better off and happier in the long run.

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Reminds me of that episode of mad men when don drapers first xmas alone

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I’ve been divorced awhile now. Those things you wanted to do before that you didn’t? Do them.

My life is better now than it was before. No regrets, and I wasn’t the one that left.

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Take care of yourself.

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Exciting times!! Have fun!! 👍

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Call me let’s go to the bar

I think I have your old number.

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