I made a decision last week and after considering it the past few days, I think I made the wrong decision. I want to address this with my team, but not sure how to go about it. Thoughts?

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“Team, I’ve been thinking about the decision I made last week on X, and after thinking about it more I think I made the wrong call.” Then say you want to discuss it and get their input. This of course assumes you’re able to reverse your call (you’re almost always able).

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BOOOM!!! Straight from the good manager play book. That’s how I would do it ADMIT, REVERSE AND REENGAGE!

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Really hard to say without knowing the nature of the decision. i think that you should definitely try to own up to it if it feels like something that would be helpful for them to know, but I don't think you necessarily need to share anything with them if it's mostly something that affects you. I would maybe sit on it for a little while longer before deciding (and maybe ask someone when you can describe the whole situation to them and get some feedback)

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Admit your mistakes it allows others to do the same.

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Just what you did here is what you should do. A real leader can admit to a mistake and it can be a positive experience.

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