Do y’all get moved around from hall to hall? I’ve been moved so many times. I have 2 more years until I can retire.
Did any of you buy an engagement ring from Tiffany? If so, what made you buy it from Tiffany and not somewhere else (i.e., James Allen, Blue Nile, etc.)?
Hey 🐠, anyone had success “house hacking” their first home? (Buying duplex, renting out other side)
How would you word to a recruiter the fact that you are not willing to do another round of interviews and that if the past ones were not convincing enough, I want to pass and explore other options?
The real winner at the super bowl is Tams.
Those who lift heavy weights/run a lot and have donated blood - how did the donation affect your exercising performance afterwards? Was it harder to do so? If so, for how long?
Found out some of my coworkers get paid significantly more than I do, but have little or none of the credentials and experience I have. How do I go about bringing this up to HR?
Do you ever feel unnoticed in a room? I am confident with my ability and my comms. However, I often feel over powered by other voices and just don’t have the strength to fight for a platform sometimes
I’m starting a new role as an HRBP in California. Any suggestions on compliance resources when it comes to hiring/terminating and just overall HR? California is it’s own beast and I know I’ll be trained on some stuff but I’d like to come as prepared as possible. Thanks in advance!
I'm destined to start my own hedge fund
Anyone down to do some case prep today?
What are the best cities for product management or fintech jobs? Preferably other than SF or NYC.
How much total amount of stocks will Engineer and Senior Engineer receive / has received till now?
Indian 32 Female
Even after 6 years of marriage I don't like my husband at all.
Can't/won't Divorce him coz I am a coward and won't be able to face judgements
Although I'm already being judged for not having a kid yet
I don't want a kid with this guy so just can't go ahead with it
How do I keep myself happy being in the marriage?
What agencies have the “coolest” people?
This past election was the first since my teen became a registered voter. It's funny to see the different campaign ads we got: candidates sent her the "young, hip, trendy" ads and I got the ones about Medicare. Am I really that old?
I just joined a brand as a marketing director and I’m coming in at the beginnings of a rebrand. The agency never provided a creative recommendation based on discovery for us to approve, they just started putting together messaging after holding a handful of interviews with our former leadership team. Having been on agency side this seems crazy to me, but I’m unsure how to approach feedback to the agency since I was on the media side, not creative. Any advice?
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I feel like my insurance company bait and switched me. For initial prescription and subsequent refill was $0. Went to pick up today and was going to be $500. Glad there’s alternatives but who would pay $500 for a month’s worth of pills.
Anybody here has anxiety reaching out or pinging people? I’d have a full blown anxiety even pinging people who have told me to not be afraid to reach out to them.
I'm a recovering alcoholic. Turns out my alcoholism was covering up a mood disorder and PTSD for about 12 years... In this industry people think I'm crazy/dramatic when I ask for what I need... Cont
Anyone else feel like they don't fit in? I joined a couple months ago and there is no one I feel comfortable talking to. It seems like everyone talks shit about everyone else and acts so fake
Are we our own worst critics? Despite getting glowing reviews from above, I can’t help but feel like I don’t do enough or quick enough or efficiently enough. This causes anxiety and stress for me.
Wanting to start therapy for social anxiety/depression but no idea where to start. Those that see a therapist, how often do you usually go? Ball park price range? Has anyone tried online therapists?
We need to talk about the amount people struggling with alcoholism at all levels in this profession.
I’m suffering from some extreme burnout and things have finally started to slow down. But my body still feels stressed and anxious. I’m considering going on an antidepressant because I can‘t (cont)
Been seeing a therapist for 4 months and finally scheduled an appt with a psychiatrist to get on antidepressants. Hope that I find a good combo that works quickly and I can actually start living life
Friends, how are we this week? This is a pretty quiet group, so I want to check in and see how you are feeling!
How are you dealing with being severely understaffed? I have no associates or seniors and just have been stuck playing all rolls. I feel broken and defeated and just have nothing left to give.
Stressed out?! Check out the link below for 15 way to reduce stress in under 10 minutes. You choose what works best for you in the moment!
Anyone read “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck”? Is it worth reading or is it another stale self help book?
I’m an A3. Was tier 2 as first year and tier 1 as second year. I know there’s really no big difference in pay between the tiers but I still can’t stop worrying that I won’t be tier 1 this year 😔
How do you know when it’s time to get help? I’ve never seen a mental health professional but I just don’t feel like myself lately, a lot of which I think is attributed to quarantine.
What do I do if I feel so depressed everyday cause of work? It feels so meaningless and I feel completely alone while I’m going through this
Has anyone taken a leave of absence due to mental health? If yes, what was your experience like and how did your team/office take it?
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On your team? In your family? Can you provide more context on your situation and what you’re looking for help with?
If you find out let me know. Both my parents are.
I’m sorry. I know how hard this can be. I have an alcoholic dad. My step mom was addicted to meth when I left the house at 17. My mom- who didn’t raise me but I saw for custody visits- was a drug addict with mental illnesses.
I now see I chose accounting because it provided something missing from my childhood- consistency and stability. I’m glad I made the choice but I’ve really had to work on myself to learn how to navigate life.
Can’t help them if they won’t help themselves.
Accept they will never change. Redefine the relationship to get only what you need from the individual (which could mean ending the relationship too) and you have no obligation to do anything for them.
This strategy has worked well for me
I think the best thing you can do is being willing to accept them sober or do activities not centered around drinking when the time comes that they choose to become sober. Of course only if it’s a relationship or friendship you care to be in. When you get sober or quit drinking, you find out who your real friends are pretty quickly.
My father is an alcoholic. What’s worked for me is to learn what healthy boundaries mean to me. Those boundaries change with time and have not been easy to navigate- like when I didn’t have him at my wedding.
12-step work with Adult Children of Alcoholics helped me process some of this stuff and also provided a group of others who got my situation and could help me navigate the situations I’d bump up against.
It’s helpful when you can get to a place when you see the alcoholic behaviors aren’t about whether your lovable or not. (At least that was always my challenge- my dad is a mean drunk.) Their drinking is to numb out their own pain. Hurt people hurt people. 💔