I'm a naturally introverted person. However, this position has completely drained my social battery to an extent I can not even find the motivation to reach out to friends or family. Or be involved in any social obligations unless it's immediate family or my partner. Has customer service made anyone else reclusive or is it just me?

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Yes. Working with people and hearing that many complaints constantly is emotionally draining. Find ways to make sure you balance your mental health. Walks, hikes, workouts, etc. It will take more effort but it will help

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Thank you! Those are some great ideas - I need more quiet space in my life. I find myself craving solitude more than ever.

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It can be emotionally draining, especially doing it day after day. Make sure to make time for yourself, set boundaries, and seek support when you need it.

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Exactly! I feel drained in every way possible!! I appreciate your kindness. :)

Same. It was really difficult to balance out my personal life and my job, and after a while, it felt like my social life had completely disappeared. It's natural to feel reclusive and drained after dealing with so many customer interactions on a daily basis. It's important to take time for yourself to recharge and reconnect with the people you care about.

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I start my CSR position tomorrow and while I’m incredibly I got a job in this terrible market, I’m taking a low level position and I’ve never been in customer support before. I just hope it’s a foot in after my 6 month term is up and I’m able to move up and around to a different role.

Yeah it really is such an emotionally and socially exhausting line of work. I am just hoping to only do it temporarily until I can become an account manager or something like that. But maybe that job will also make me feel reclusive?

Yes, I completely relate. After work and on the weekends, I want to do nothing but stay home. My boyfriend will sometimes have me come over to his family's house after work, and it is so exhausting. I would love to socialize with them but having to keep my mask and listening ears on for another couple of hours after I have already left my job is painful.

You are definitely not alone. Every time you think about the negative things about work, try to find a positive. The job is keeping a roof over your head, food, etc. If you deal with an awful person, be grateful that you are not them or think about the fact that it is not personal. Maybe they are going through something.

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