My friend wants a recommendation at my company but to be honest, I don’t think she is right for the job. How do I politely say that I’m not comfortable with that?

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Your friend may not be the best fit for the job, but that doesn't mean she isn't qualified. You could try recommending her to other positions within the company or even suggest she look elsewhere. Ultimately, it's up to your friend to decide if she wants to pursue the job or not.

You could say something like, "I'm not sure if this is the right job for you, but I'm happy to recommend you to other companies." This will help your friend focus their job search on positions that are a better fit.

Why do you think she is not right for the job? Explaining to her why is the best choice in my opinion, maybe she gives you the reason and helps her to know where to look better.

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