DEI professionals- how do you deal with burn out? It's hard to keep up the good work when facing so many challenges and priorities

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It's a never ending battle, isn't it? Seriously, some days I question whether it's worth the fight or not.

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I take a day or two off when I feel particularly stressed. We're not built to keep on going forever.

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Setting boundaries and knowing that I alone will not solve every problem we are working to fix. I also love spending time with other DEI pros. I feel so heard and validated, and that brings relief.

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Every morning I question my commitment to the cause. After taking this temperature check and realizing that for this day DEI is still my personal calling - not just my job or my title - I get up, strap on and plunge in like there’s no tomorrow. Because one day there won’t be. It’s not the circumstances around me that will make me tire… burnout… quit. I signed up long ago for all the external and internal chaos that goes into changing the world’s systems. The morning the “calling” doesn’t call my name anymore, I’m done.

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What would u say u have been able to accomplish within this space with the time u have been given? Serious question.

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