6 months sober…had the spiritual experience early on…my life’s transformed (and is continuing to) and I haven’t been overly tempted yet…very grateful and hoping this message will help others in their journeys

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Glad you have found a path to sobriety that works for you. Keep putting in the work, the stronger your foundation is, the more tools you have for when life gets challenging and sobriety feels threatened. I have 1.5 years, and while the overall trajectory has been positive, life is gonna life and it isn't always a smooth straight trajectory upwards. But I've found that if I put in the work, it gives me what I need to stay the course.

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Thank you D1! Congratulations on 1.5Y! That’s amazing! 🎉🎉🎉

congrats! Thank you for the positive share!

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Congrats! How'd you do it?

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Thanks D1! I want to say “1 day at a time” which it definitely is…but I think it’s the spiritual experience first for me, and then a day at a time everyday!

Nice! Hit 2yrs on Wednesday this week and it has been the best 2 of my 43!

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Wow! Congratulations!!! 🎉🎉🎉

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