A partner who said he’d look out for me and invest in my growth hasn’t been as invested recently (e.g. ignores emails about touching base). Any advice on developing this relationship?

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They’re busy?
I’m always surprised at how little people who haven’t been in the job appreciate how busy Partners are. And how many of these requests they get.
You’re looking for a favor. Treat it as such. Keep gently pinging them. When they have time, they’ll connect.

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This ^^^^^

Exit. Most partners are narcissistic liars and really don’t care at all. You’re just a tool to be used. Sorry if this sounds negative, but it’s what I’ve learned.

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He probably was different.

He/she is probably just busy, don’t take it personal. Checking in quarterly is more then enough

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We all need an entire Board of Directors during our career, filled with mentors and counselors and other formal and informal networks and relationships we are actively maintaining and growing. Schedule a meeting. Go into office for a coffee or lunch. But don't be reliant on 1 and only 1 person. I find many partners are willing to do this for the junior people.

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He probably found a new girlfriend. It’s not you, it’s him.

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