Have you ever accidentally insulted your boss, pretty hard core, in a meeting? What I do? It was a total foot in mouth, but it was a huge meeting. I feel like if I avoid an apology it might actually be better for me so that we can pretend I didn't realize it was insulting and was just harmlessly talking...

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“Hey, wanted to acknowledge in the X meeting the other day, I said something that was not intended to be negative or disregard your thoughts. I apologize and will be more cognizant of my words/tone moving forward”

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Mic drop.

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It depends on their personality type but for me I’d definitely respect you a ton more if you cleared the air directly with me and apologized.

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Yes G1 and also if you feel like you have a more casual vibe: "Hey, there was a moment in the meeting the other day where I really put my foot in my mouth and it was not intended to disrespect you at all. I really did not seek to say anything that would undermine you but I totally failed at communicating. Will be really mindful of what I say here on out."

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Excellently phrased!

If you’re still thinking about it, it’s worth mentioning. I think Google 1’s answer is ideal.

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