How do you deal with Copycat Colleagues? I'm working with a strategic partner and noted several times that they mirror my language. Until now, I let it go.

Then they posted to LI they're seeking new opportunities and asked me to recommend them in comments. I was incredulous when I read the post and noted their elevator pitch is almost the exact metaphor / structure I use.

How can I address this tactfully? There's a second partner, so I'm not ready to walk away from this venture yet.

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You sound weird af.

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Thank you robot.

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Assume positive intent, move on.

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I agree with CD1. You don’t lose anything when your colleague uses similar or even the same language. Yes, perhaps it’s lazy of them to borrow from you. But you could also view it as flattery.

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Thanks for the constructive perspectives. In a world where creativity and credit often comes into question, it's insightful.

I will also add it's easier to let it go when you don't work with that person again. It's more complicated when you have an ongoing relationship with them and you want to maintain a positive dynamic.

As for the trolls who have nothing to add... haters gonna hate. Too bad you are bitter...

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I’m confused. You have a strategy colleague copying your euphemisms and tics and now they are leaving? And they’re using some elevator pitch about themselves that they took from you…?

I mean, they’re leaving, so let them. But also don’t be so precious with things. Surely you didn’t make up the metaphor, and as a creative you certainly can come up with something new and better for your “elevator pitch” (not sure what you need that for? Freelance?)

More context explained below. No, they aren't leaving, we're not FT business partners. Sure, I can come up with a different elevator pitch but big picture, but I don't want this to be a continuous issue with this person. And yes, I still consult / freelance, so yes need it for my individual, professional profile.

OP: The situation you’ve described is very unclear. If you’re a Founder, is your colleague a business partner? Or a fellow employee at a larger organization? It’s normal for people in the same organization to speak about the world in the same way. But it’s strange to post about looking for new opportunities unless you are both self employed. Would you be willing to explain this in more detail?

Hi, more details given below. I agree that there's shared industry jargon. It's one thing to have a similar elevator pitch for a company or project, but I'm referring to my individual professional profile.

To give more context: Colleague and I are both self-employed. As a small studio / consultant, I collaborate with strategic partners to create new opps. We are not exclusive business partners and generally I'm fine with giving references. Sharing industry jargon and common language for a collab is reasonable. However, I am weary as the elevator pitch is for my individual professional profile, not our shared project.

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