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What's so bad about "drinking the Kool Aid"?
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Is anyone a member of Chief? Do you recommend?
Here we go again
What's so bad about "drinking the Kool Aid"?
Is anyone a member of Chief? Do you recommend?
Are you trying to justify you're worth to yourself?
Treat your subordinates as adults, give them clear expectations, give them challenges and opportunities to grow.
Great you have good rapport with your staff, but if you're not seen to be leading and setting standards, they won't follow, regardless of how likable you are.
Maybe get a coach/ mentor to help you thru this transition.
You need to transition the Like to Respect and where possible share the Why on decisions.
Then they may not like you and the decisions but they will respect you and the decisions.
Great leaders inspire loyalty not hatred. But great leaders are brave and make tough decisions. Be open about what you expect, be fair and reasonable, and explain why… as long as you have decent judgement, people will respect you and your authenticity. That typically inspires loyalty. Also don’t forget empathy.
Don’t let go of it. Just want to be liked for the right reasons!