I feel so consistently underappreciated at work and I notice it bleeds into my personal life. These past 2 years have been hard on all of us, but I am trying not to let that affect my personal relationships. Any advice?

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Take it one day at a time. Never let others dim your light.

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Look at them separately. You do what you gotta do at work. The kids may but say it, but they appreciate your hard work. And adults are too caught up in themselves, but they appreciate you from a distance.
When you come home, don’t even think about what happened earlier. Just let loose & relax & try to enjoy spending time with friends & have fun.

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