I got into relationship too quick. I think i fall in love for the sake of wanting love. It hurts me of course cause every time I feel like I put myself out there and lose my dignity.

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Take some time away from relationships. Fall in love with yourself

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No dignity was lost, experience was gain. I don’t mean that in an innuendo. Learn from every relationship

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Slow down a little and don't hurt yourself

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Slow and steady wins the race

I am in the same boat

I've been in your shoes before op. One day you'll meet a good partner who won't make you feel that way.

have you talked to your s/o about how you feel?

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What is this dignity word? I’ve never heard it. Is it Latin or something?

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