I'm becoming too shy to deal with one-on-one conversations in the office. I'd rather email someone next to me than call or go to them. But my question is, how does one get to meet like-minded people, especially if they don't come from the same office as you?

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I was in the same boat and I had to come to the realization that the only way to overcome this was to get out of my comfort zone. There's kind of no way around it.

Are you trying to meet people at work on in general. There are apps like Bumble that help you connect with people on a platonic basis

Your company should implement a community engagement activity. You can propose or suggest ideas if you have any.

You can join online groups or meet-ups. For sure, other CMs will be there too.

I totally get you. It's because we've been working from home for too long. Some roles are even hybrid or remote right now.

This is one of the negative effects of WFH for too long. No need to rush, OP. You can use apps or join groups online.

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