Have you ever had to go to management about a coworker being difficult/impeding your own work? I finally had to discuss a coworker with my leads because he’s been very argumentative with directions (I’m slightly above him) and cuts corners with his work. It’s starting to make me look bad when it’s things we’ve worked on together, so I no longer want to be put on assignments with him.

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I felt kinda guilty having to have that conversation with my leads but they assured me I’m not the only one having problems and it needs to be documented.

I have about one salesman who was too pushy and raised his voice at me because he thought a project should've been done already but wasn't.

How did that situation turn out?

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