I feel like I can’t “have fun” without drinking. If you ever had this how did you overcome it?

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I thought the same thing in March. I just spent a more and more weekends sober until I realized how much clarity I had not drinking. It probably took 7 months and now I really avoid drinking because I value the clarity. I still hang out with friends, but not in the same alcohol focused way.

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