I’ve had a perpetual stomachache/headache combo 24/7 since I started practicing law 5 years ago…that’s normal right?

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No and this job isn’t worth it

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Former litigator here. I wish I took my anxiety symptoms seriously years ago. Stress and anxiety are normal, but perpetual stress and anxiety are not normal. It will wreck your health long term. Plus, trust your gut (pun intended). Being able to maintain a career does not mean it's good for you.

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It’s called ambition.

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Seems like good ol’ anxiety. Shows up differently in different people. Aaaand if my experience and that of certain others is anything to go by, some low lying anxiety humming in the background (sometimes more than low lying tbh, depending on firm culture etc.) seems to be part of the package called the practice of law.

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