Any parents out there feel dumped on when single people come in at 10:30 hungover so you have to pick up their slack? Or they need to take tomorrow off because Chance the Rapper’s last minute concert?

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For the parents out there- you get double the sick days with your children, you leave early to pick up “Charlie”, and you have a ton of obligations that go unnoticed.
As a single person, I have contemplated having a photo of someone’s baby on my desk and calling it mine. When it comes to “I have to pick up the baby from daycare” no questions are asked.

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Apart from politics, is there any other industry with so much in fighting? Wow, we can't even learn to work with each other's differences. Go to work. Do it sincerely. Go home, pay you bills, do what makes you happy.

Overall, just be a nice human. It's easier than advertising.

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Haha, I love this post. How does it feel singles?

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10:30 is early lol

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I have said many times-I need to go back in time and apologize to the working parents I worked with in my twenties. It may look different on the outside but I get more work done now than I ever did as I am more committed and more focused than I ever was prior to having kids. I spend less time goofing around at the office and more time working from 8pm to midnight to make sure nothing is left hanging.

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Your kids are supposed to be the cry babies, not you.

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Actual cycle that I go through as a working parking: last minute 6pm meeting invite that all the single/no kids people roll in 5-10 minutes late to and fail to get to the point for another 5 minutes. I feel pressure to not pull the daycare card so I sit there silently stressing about the time but trying to be efficient and a team player. Then I literally run from the train to daycare where my child is the last kid there and the workers have her jacket on and she's sitting at the front desk. Feel like shit, repeat until I finally give up and draw a hard boundary about when I have to leave and likely the single people are making passive aggressive posts on FB about having to pick up my slack.

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I feel dumped on when my CD (married w/kid) comes in at 10:30. And/but, I live vicariously through the singles

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@MD I started this post for no other reason to point out the absurdity of the opposite type post, like a very recent one that I borrowed language from. That is the only reason I posted.

The sentiment in my comment however stands; there are good coworkers and bad coworkers. Marital status, parental status, health or a lot of shit you don’t see isn’t the thing that’s the decider of which of those buckets they fall

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Sorry. All this chatter is complete and utter bullshit. I know parents who go weeks without spending nights or weekends with their kids so they can get the job done (ya know, many feel the need to overcompensate for those rare sick calls/ conflicts). I know singles that go all in and singles that slack regularly. The whole married/ single kids/ no kids comparison is a moot point. Either you’re a dependable fighter or an asshole. Period

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This post is a mockery of another one posted earlier

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Parent here. I get in late and leave early far more often than my non-kid-having peers. Because I have to shuffle kids between karate and basketball and soccer and dance. Or one of them is sick. Or, or, or... they’re little lives are so demanding. And I am grateful for an understanding team when I have to pick up my slack after their bedtimes.

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I’m so sorry you decided to have children.

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A smart junior copywriter says in a sentence what a whiney MD takes 9 pages to say 👍

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Your stupid kids are none of my concern just like my stupid concert should be none of yours. You do you.

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Really regret commenting on this 9 hours ago

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^^^

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What company offers parents ‘double the sick days’? I think I need to apply there!!!!

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I love BROAD generalization that ALL singles are selfish ass holes and ALL parents are innocent victims. Plenty of creative's who and parents who go above and beyond for their job AND their team AND their family. Maybe its time for you to find an agency with better human beings....

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Oh, and I’m a Dad

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@MD1 sarcasm (noun) sar·casm\ˈsär-ˌka-zəm\

1 : a sharp and often satirical or ironic utterance designed to cut or give pain

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@AS1 double the sick days? Who gets sick days anymore? They’re all Working From Home days now. And do you know how much I’d rather be in the office dealing with a deadline than at home juggling a sick, screaming toddler while simultaneously dealing with that deadline? Oh sweet single person, get back to work. Especially if it’s between 9 and 6. Because us working moms are hoping we can ALL bust our asses during business hours and get home. we got other stuff to deal with.

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