Even though we said we would still be friends, I haven’t heard from them in over 2 months. Would it be an awful idea for me to reach out (I’ve been the one to reach out before) 😢

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No, no, no, NO! Go jog in a cold to get the dump ideas out of your head

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Not an awful idea overall but bad for your mental space yes. don’t reach out. looks like they said they wanna be friends for the sake of not burning the bridge. or maybe they meant it and now don’t want to anymore

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I reached out once after they assured me that and I was like I haven’t heard from you and idk if you meant it. They said ‘that’s what we said the last time we spoke and of course I meant it don’t be ridiculous’. But no outreach on their part so I guess actions speak louder than words

Stay strong!! 💪

Focus on other real friends and yourself. Two months isn’t a long enough time to become friends with an ex. It’s really not realistic until you’re in a new relationship and healed. You don’t need him as a friend

I completely understand since I still have feelings. I guess I was just hoping we wouldn’t completely be strangers now. That every now and then we can still check in and catch up. I just miss hearing from them 😔 and it makes me feel like they never even think about me

Oh god no, let it go

I would not do it. I would focus that energy elsewhere.

I know it is hard but it gets better

What’s the update, OP?

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