I’ve been divorced now for a year and a half. Prior to my divorce I was in a years long cycle of depression that cycled between moderate to severe enough I was having suicidal thoughts and even developed a plan to carry it out. Only thing that stopped me was the thought of leaving my now ex wife as the sole caregiver of my kids. Not for her sake but for theirs I couldn’t bear the thought of that. I’ve been reading recently about narcissistic personality disorder and feel very strongly contd

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No experience with that but good to hear you are in a better place now.

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If she's a narcissist I hope the kids are doing ok! I think its amazing how you're in a position to be able to have that medication discussion with your doctor. kudos to you!!

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This disorder describes my ex wife. Anyone have experience with this? I was previously diagnosed Bipolar Type ii but since my divorce I’ve been almost symptom free to the point my psychiatrist has weaned my medication and we’re talking about going off meds completely. Curious if anyone else has lived with or survived someone with narcissistic personality disorder.

Update I had a manic relapse and am back on all meds. Triggered by custody and alimony issues. Feeling better now but it’s been a rough few weeks.

rooting for your health and happiness!

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