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Hey guys. I have been applying to Amex for the past 1 year. Tried applying on the portal, through referrals and even hr consultants reached me regarding the roles since I have a relevant profile. But not once have I been shortlisted or called for an interview. What could be the problem?
PS: I have gotten calls from every other company for the same profile but not amex. Can't be a problem with the profile. Seems something dicey which I'm not aware of.American Express
A few years ago I found out that companies are required to release their job titles and salary when they sponsor someone for an American work visa. If your firm hires international people, salary data for that role is available.
There is a website called h1bgrader.com that has turned all that data into an interactive dashboard.
I think this data is far far more accurate than glass door or any other self-disclosure forum.
If you have unlimited patience you can lookup H1B data on Uscis.gov and analyze it yourself.
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Someone’s jealous.
To be honest, it’s no one’s business what anyone does with their money. As a manager, it’s not as if she can’t afford it, but she’s choosing not to buy it. That’s her business and it’s your business what you do with your money.
I wouldn’t have answered the additional question and found a way to change the subject.
OP, please be careful and note if she starts treating you differently or starts making comments that make you feel uncomfortable. Jealously can cause people to act strangely and if you ever feel uncomfortable, speak to your counsellor to see if you can get rolled off the engagement.
I think she means she got an opp to obtain the nice bag when other person tried and it was unavailable
One of my associates carries a 6k channel bag and we give her crap all the time just like everyone messes with me for driving an 02 Honda. It's all just fun and games for us.
The fact that she asked you if it was real or not is classless. She is just jealous, and obviously a petty person. She just should have said, what a beautiful bag, if she had to say anything at all. You don’t have to justify yourself to anyone - you go girl, and if nice bags make you happy, then go for a Berkin next!
U should get a $4k bag and carry one on each shoulder infront of her office
Maybe she was just teasing you a little bit and not really a big deal?
It’s nobody else’s place to comment on what you spend money (that you earned) on.
Push it back. Report to HR. This is not something she should comment. What if it is some gift from someone super important?
Of course I am joking lol😂
It wasn’t said jokingly. She was surprised and also asked later that if it’s real. I feel disturbed honestly.
What other actions? It is none of her business! You paid for that bag and should carry it!
Who cares what you spend your money on. We got first year associates at home driving BMWs and Audi's. I've seen interns with money have better cars than partners. I like nice stuff and my wife makes good money as well so we have newer cars but don't blow 10k vacations while the partner takes his family to Mexico and Florida multiple times a year but drives an older truck , we all make choices on what to spend money on.
So carry that bag with pride if it makes you happy!
Carry the bag proudly. I was that associate and I’m that experienced senior. I’ll be that manager as well. I’m not spoiled. I don’t mismanage money. I like nice things, I work hard, I respect myself and get what I want. The key is to not get offended and stay humble. If someone has ever asked me, I proudly speak about my bags and car. After all they’re my babies. Once I tell them about it and they see the joy, they either wanna carry the bag and then go get it or they want to go to lunch and ask if they can drive my car. I’m happy to do both. Everyone likes something different. Nice things motivate me. They motivated me to go through a rigorous major, to get employed by one of the best firms in the world, to do my job, and to move UP! My husband is just like me and we motivated each other so he went to law school (no I pay for my own bags and I pay bills so everyone relax I’m a goal digger not a gold digger). There are many other things I want in life and I know by working smart and hard I will get there. Bags are just the beginning. You should hold a list of everything else nice you want to achieve and steps of how you’re going to get there in your nice purse as well. The point of working hard is to enjoy life with those you love and however that makes you happy. Be proud of who you are and others will feel ashamed to have judged you.
I think the issue is that OP and others on this thread are expecting everyone else to be on board including her manager. You can show off your material things and how they give you joy because they are your babies, but at the same time you have to recognize that some others are not going to be as jazzed about your stuff and some will also think you lack good judgement in making financial decisions. I’m not saying thats your case. And if material possessions are what lights your fire then you do you. I think the issue is moreso that OP and others are shocked that people might judge them negatively based on their clothes/bags/cars etc. (while, ironically at the same time they are all posting to this thread so others will judge them positively for the same thing). 🤷♀️
As an intern I drove a Benz and got comments from my managers. As an associate I carried my ~2k bag and now as a senior, proudly wear my ~30k engagement ring. People will always make comments, but it’s none of their business. A lot of people in this industry have wealthy families or spouses or are just really good at saving. Don’t let it get to you. Keep doing you boo
Thanks for the reply! Having nice things is nothing to be ashamed of :) I’m working towards a personal goal and once I achieve it I’m buying a David yurman bracelet, can’t wait
Doesn’t sound that bad. Maybe this is out of context. Regardless just ignore it
Why are people so sensitive? Who cares what they said?
Be careful. Coming from a “boss” and not a peer is reason to worry. It shows she has some insecurities that could come out in other ways that negatively impact you.
It’s terrible working with such people. Feel sorry for you OP! Hope she quits or you get transferred to better team.
Worrying about what other people think is the biggest mistake one can make. You probably bought an expensive bag because you care about what other people think and this is also bothering you because you care about what other people think. Life is too short to care about what other people think!
I would never call a manager in public accounting my boss since you normally work with multiple managers. And worrying does nothing good but cause stress in your life, it doesn’t actually fix anything
That’s it! I am gonna stop wearing the fake Rolex that I ordered! I am afraid I won’t get a raise because of $50 watch! 😂😂
Pretty sure you’re overreacting. If you have a nice bag - she was probably just appreciating it. I comment on people having great handbags all the time. When I take a nice bag to work - I like people commenting on it. Maybe that’s just me 🤷🏻♀️...
Maybe a thoughtless comment? I’ve had people ask me the same - I don’t take offense. I went to Shanghai once and came back with a really great imitation. And I have a great Chanel bag from Paris. I wear both with pride. Do your thing.
Was it said jokingly?
If not, she’s a loser. Ignore and carry on.
Nah there’s definitely jokes. Of course it crosses their mind you think people don’t notice what you wear? But it’s a matter of whether or not she actually cares that makes it a joke
Ugh that’s so annoying. Who cares how you choose to spend your own money? I’m and senior and I’ve been on the receiving end of some catty comments of a similar nature as well (I also have a ~$2k bag). When I got comments on it I shrugged it off and said that when I was purchasing a bag I was looking for quality and longevity, and I was willing to put forth a little more money for something that felt more suited towards my needs. It’s bullshit, but I think the manager I was dealing with saw that as an “acceptable” response.
And yeah, obviously this manager def had enough money to buy her own stuff, but she was petty and against buying nice things because she’s admitted that she’s the type of person to buy something nice and then be too afraid to ever actually use it or wear it outside of her coat.
We shouldn’t have to hide how we enjoy our hard earned money just to appease a few jealous and petty people - if she continues to make snide comments to you, I would try to talk to her about it first (she might not even realize how jealous and catty she’s being).
(And btw - I have a lot of nice stuff - some expensive, and some cheap but just carefully curated - and I definitely started flexing a little here and there because fuck petty people who try and put you down to make themselves feel better.)
So what if you are trying to show? I think we’re missing the point. It’s none of our business how you choose to spend your own money! Go ahead and flaunt it. People are just jealous and petty!
Lmao who gives a shit!?
I am pretty sure the senior associate still living at home has more disposable income than I do, with 2 kids. He should enjoy it. I did