I’ve let go of them. But I’m having so much trouble letting go of the fantasy i created of them in my head. Need help with this

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Im really struggling myself. My ex reached out recently without any intention of getting back together so I had to make myself tell her to stop. And this hurt a lot. Been putting myself out there and talking to new matches on apps and trying not to compare. You and I got this.

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Omg yes the comparing!! Everytime i see someone moderately cute i immediately compare them to the fantasy version of my ex that i’ve created in my head. i need to stop

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The fantasy is the kind of partner you want. For now be your own cheerleader. Make the life you want for yourself and the right person and in general, people will come along that goes with that.

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I started doing this. and I think i’ve been pretty successful because i’m proud of where I am. But i wish i could share this with them

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And also the version of them that i knew before they changed

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