Good afternoon all! Any tips for dealing with lack of confidence in the workplace as a result of imposter syndrome? I believe that coupled with my micro managing superior is the main culprit and it causes me to overthink and make silly mistakes as a result.

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Everyone gets it in accounting, especially in your initial years out of college. My advice is to work hard, always try to learn as much as you can, and eventually you’ll grow out of it.

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Totally understand what you're feeling. Curious to see the responses. Keep your head up, OP.

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Thank you both A1 & SM1 it feels good knowing other people can relate! Definitely always striving to learn more and be better.

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